I am a little slow; I do not understand your statement? "A mutual friend is wanting you to search for me over in the alt universe." Would you please explain?
Christa~
I am sorry that you did not hear anything from H on your B-d. I am having a hard time trying to figure him out. Of course, that is what you have been saying for a while now. I wish I could give you some insight, explanation, or advice, but I cannot right now. I will have to think about some more.
I am proud of you for going out and having a good time for your B-d anyway. How did you do in your finals?
To all who is interested in my progress in my sitch ~~
Well here is an update. This maybe a little long, but some major things happened this past week/weekend and will require some words to explain.
W came home early enough to go with me to a company party. She left behind some work that was time sensitive, but came home anyway. That is first. W told me that she had gone to see her IC and talked about what I have been doing. W told me that her C told her that I had made remarkable progress and she (W) should be open to my changes. C told her that many of her male clients have complained over the years that they had made all of these changes and their Ws would not give them a chance to show them what they had accomplished. C asked W if she was having fun and enjoyed my company. W said yes, but she was having problems, because she still has not totally given up on being single. C told her to tell me that and I have a choice in the matter as well. The C told W to go home relax and enjoy what she is seeing and getting from me. So she is doing just that. Sex is another issues, when I asked about that aspect of our relationship, she was still not ready. I asked if she would help me try and understand why. She started crying and said that she must have been angry far so long that it is difficult and she requested to change the subject and I respected her request and move on to something else. This topic will come up again, so I will wait until it does. I hope this is a topic she will discuss with her C.
She rode behind me on my motorcycle to a store in a near-by town to buy boots to wear while riding with me on the motorcycle. Another first. We came back to town and eat supper out. When we got back to our house we watched TV and then she dressed up in one of the new sexy nightgowns. We danced and cuddled for two hours. I gave her a back rub and she slept with me in our bed where we cuddled all night.
The next day I went to the Lone Star motorcycle rally with a friend and W state home all day doing her thing. When I got home W had planned for us to go out to eat and go to a play. Time did not allow for the play, so we came home, she took a hot bath and dress-up in the last of her four new sexy nightgowns and we watched a movie while cuddling on the couch. We danced very close and went to our bed for the night.
We got up this morning and went on another motorcycle ride with another couple to have breakfast. She had a great time. She asked me if I enjoyed the day with her riding with me and I told her that I did, but I do not want her to tell me she had a good time just so that I would have a good time. I told her that if she had a good time because she enjoyed it great, but not just because I did. She said that she did. When we got home we laid in the bed and cuddled very close. This was disguised as taking a knap. Though neither us slept.
She got up packed her car and went of the a party with some very close friends and on to her apt. She called and told me that she had a very good time every minute this weekend.
She will come home next weekend so that we can go to a wedding and spend the night in a hotel over night.
I feel very good about all that has transpired this weekend. We have spent 6 of the last 7 weekends together and have mutually agreed that all of them were a great time.
So what do you guys think? Do you think we are making progress? Any insight on the sex issue? Your feedback is welcome.
Christa What do you think?
Once again, I apologize for the wordiness of this post. If it makes you feel any better I did just hit the high spots. There were no low spots; I just did not talk about all of the high points.
