Thanks Silver...won't his L be irritated that he doesn't tell the truth?
Everything I've read is that in a D, lawyers don't want any surprises...it's not a criminal case!
I think his L wasn't aware that H 'deserted' me....and that I will cross bill with desertion and that his A lead to the seperation/desertion.
I need sleep...sleep is my best friend except when I dream. I have to find a way to stop my dreams.
(And I have no idea when I'll be able to get out to xmas shop for the kids...that is stressing me out as well. I am always the one to do that...anything H buys is during the last two days before xmas. This week is a huge work week for me, next week the kids are out of school. Online shopping may have to be the way...ugh.)
Thanks again Silver and Snodderly for sticking with me.
Deep breaths...sleep, sleep, sleep:)
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home