Haven't posted to you in awhile. RTL's post is beautiful. I'm brokenhearted too - and I'm waiting, waiting, waiting for my H to hit rock bottom and realize what he's done. But during the waiting and the no contact, I'm beginning to heal and to see my H in a different light, see that in fact he doesn't love himself either. He's involved with a needy, insecure, ocd nut - and I guess right now that makes him feel like a useful man because he's "helping" her.
Anyway, what RTL said - only your BF can decide on change.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
