Yes, it does seem the wrong end of life to be living like this. I've worked for 30 years--I shouldn't be this poor. But I should've been more selfish; gotten another degree instead of helping out 2 husbands establish their careers. What I did for love, for my family. I need to raise D to be a little more high-maintenance than I have been.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012