My H denies there's OW, and my IC tends to agree for sure, but I'm not so sure. BUT, in order for me to keep most of my sanity, I have to NOT think about an OW being there. I knew of one a few months after he left, not sure if this one is the same one or not, but I don't want to know either. I think knowing of OW is very hurtful and we imagine things that aren't really taking place with them. Try to forget about OW as much as you possibly can.
