last week I had to do CPR recertification (one of those obligatory nursing things). The person I sat next to, out of a room of ~30 strangers, ended up being a therapist who worked, among other units, on the same unit with OW. I just found that out as we were waiting for check-offs. I asked if she knew OW--oh, yes! She asked if she was a friend of mine. Oh, wth I thought--no, I said, my husband recently left me to renew an old relationship with her. Yes, it was an awkward moment for sure. But she was quite sympathetic, and if she's like any other woman the truth will soon be common knowledge. And she was appalled that a hospital chaplain would toss his family out the window to have an affair with a nurse on his unit--and she described my H without any prompting. No wonder the unit has a chaplain around so much.
BTW--I did apologize for making her feel awkward.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
