Yes, that was part of the agreement, altho it doesn't spell out how that's going to happen. So it probably won't. A couple weeks ago he was late getting me a payment and I ended up with a ton of overdraft charges--which I could ill afford. So Christmas, which was already thin, is thinner still. These are the reasons I have always dreaded being alone in the world; they are very valid reasons. It isn't about feeling inadequate without a man in my life; it has everything to do with having no safety net of connections with people who can help when needed.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012