Hey Lisa.. I thought I had rattled on alot about his Dad and the coma and all that. Yes, it was grim. They decided not to put a feeding tube in (as he was brain dead effectively from the massive stroke).. so he went from quite large..over 2-3 months, to tiny in the bed and died.. of starvation.
I wasnt happy about it, as I know it causes pain to fast.. but they said he wasnt in any distress. We were though! My ex was very quiet and stoic throughout. His Dad would yawn and open his eyes and move about a bit .. so it was very freaky, he looked alive, but he was braindead and it was just basic functions...
Still, he is now dating someone else.. there may or may not be a link from that event to now!?
..thanks for the link!...my ex literally saw his Dad wither and die in front of his eyes. MLC heaven.
