(((Al)))

Gosh, that sounds awful, both for you and BF. No wonder he's having such a hard time now.

Here's a link to the 6 stages of MLC. I think there's a permanent link also in the MLC archives somewhere....

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=423996&site_id=1#import

Hope it helps, and fingers crossed for a reply tomorrow!

L. xx