ITH~ This all sounds so great!! And I completly agree that nicknames like Dork are not in anyway abusive..my H and I use Dork & Jerk.
I agree with Opt that you should not set the expectation to a vow re-newal but do look at all the positives only a month ago you were unsure that H wanted you to live in the same house and now you guys are planning trips and talking about the possibility of moving. I think your situatuation has made a remarkable change for the good and you have to just keep looking at all of the positives.
I hope that you feel better. There is nothing wrong with a lazy weekend!!