(((CW)))))When did you find this out??!

It never came up in counseling?

How ironic, because you wrote a post that said (basically) you were angry with yourself for not believing what he said and that HE was being honest with you, but you weren't being honest with yourself. At that point did you know about the OW?


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing