First of all, I would not allow D to go with him when he has been drinking.
Secondly, now it is on record what happened at your house.
If this happened in my state, domestic charges are automatically filed. And then a few months later the court dates are set and it is mailed to you and your spouse.
He sounds really, really messed up from drinking, emotions running wild, first he wants to meet with you, write to you, then he backs off...........
He does not know which way the wind is blowing.
I would avoid contact with him as much as possible and most importantly, do not allow D to be with him when he is drinking. She is very young and what she heard/may have seen is forever in her mind.
I am so sorry. He sounds like he is losing control of his emotions.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
