Hi Silver...I just went to Hope's thread to read your post...I struggle with whether to keep their secrets or not.
I've read that it is good to expose an A...but, I guess it's not the DB way.
In this state, seperation doesn't give permission to have sex with anyone.
Sounds like you have enough evidence to prove adultry.
Do you think he sent flowers to butter you up, like Snodderly suggested to me?
Did you thank him?
Until the D papers freaked me out....I was completely okay staying away from my H...dark, dark, dark...when I have to be around him though, I am comfortable. The only thing missing is affection and....feeling like a woman.
I feel like I'm his sister...or one of the guys. BORING!!
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home