Trying2Live-Post #6

[AlexEN]

I've gotten every one of these, yet she denies now that there is even an EA!

1. I love you but Im not in love with you
2. I have been unhappy in this marriage for a long time
3. The kids will be fine if we get a divorce as long as we remain friends (for their sake)
4. I just dont feel that way about you any more
5. The OP (other person) has nothing to do with the way I feel about you now
6. You are a wonderful person, we just arent meant to be together
7. I am just confused, this has nothing to do with you [I only got this one when she was ostensibly trying; she isn't confused any more, she knows D is only way]
8. I am doing the best I can,I just cant decide what I want
9. I need some time/space to sort all of this out [Maybe before, but now she's sure]
10. I need some time/space to find myself [Maybe before, but now she's sure]
11. I am so tired of feeling this way!
12. Cant you just accept that it is over?
13. Why are you being nice to me when I do not deserve it?
14. [Before we were married, you were always there for me; since then] You have never been there for me
15. I am going to file for divorce, I just dont have the money/time/strength, etc right now
16. [More or less...] I am not going to change the way I feel, why dont you move out and file for divorce
17. The children will learn to love the OP like I do
18. I cant help myself
19. Nothing you do will ever make me love you that way again
20. My happiness has to be my number one priority
21. I will DEFINITELY divorce you if you expose to anyone or confront the OP22. You never listened to me BEFORE now; quit acting like you hear me NOW!

This is so disheartening...

-AlexEN