Nope, not a word. Sent flowers on my birthday - Nov. 1 - that's it.

I bet your H is asking himself alot of those same questions. Stay away from him as much as you can - he has to figure it out himself and YOU need to live YOUR life. That's the beauty and genius of going dark.

I just posted a "short story" about my sitch on Hope3343's thread. And I'm going to update my own thread soon (she keeps saying).

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10