Today I went to church and on the way home stopped in to do some grocery shopping where I ran into Coffee Buddy. I haven't seen or spoke to CB for over 8 months but the second I saw her face it was like an electric shock hit me! Whew, my first thought was to just keep going as she didn't seem to notice me as she was very intent on the best before dates on the bread. I then decided to stop and talk with her and not be an ass. After greeting me the first thing she says is "where is your grocery cart? Those bins you're carrying look very heavy" Yup, looking after me again, it's like breathing for that lady! We chatted briefly about our kids and I then ended it and told her I'd let her go and to have a great Xmas. I felt kind of sad heading to the parking lot, it's kind of strange when you run into someone who intimately knows the most painful time of your life and you hers, yet you can only talk about the kids and be nicey nicey to each other. I think I really wanted to give her a hug but I sure as hell didn't! Ah well, it is what it is or what is is or...It was nice to see her though and I still miss her, but that's that...end of story.