Hi native, Sorry to hear about your set back. Try not to see it that way. First you opened the communication line, even if it wasn't what you wanted to hear. If nothing else you can thank her for being honest with you. Would she expect a thank you from you??? A 180 maybe???
I understand that you are hurt and angry. It seems many of us here are ready for the next stage & our spouses are not. Can you be content with the friends stage for now??
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)