She explained that she had been doing things 'together' (as a family) for our D's sake, to make her feel 'secure', and that she even had enjoyed them, but no....there was no interest in reconcilliation. (I am paraphrasing here).
When I went to pick up D for church, W said that she could not talk freely when whe had the above conversation. I guess that D was nearby. So she wants me to call her and she will clarify.
I am really assuming this will be an amplification of 'Not Interested', but trying to remain open.
This is so painful.....
What ever happened to the notion of committment ? We had explicit discussions about this when we were together, even talked to D about it. SOMEONE PLEASE BRING MY WIFE BACK FROM PLANET X !
Sometimes, the more I hear her, the less I understand. Either this is a MLC, a personal problem on her side or a lack of communication. Perhaps I rescued her one too many times, and she wants to stand on her own two feet, to regain some of her own power which she forfeited by always being helpless. I DON'T KNOW !
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Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09
