(((((((Julia)))))))

You are sounding good!

I would have liked to hear the DB duet!

I'm thinking that the obvious interest being expressed by other guys is a good thing. I think it means that you are acting/feeling/looking more confident, and hence more attractive. I'm thinking that your H is even sensing it, as his interactions with you seem to be improving, if only a tiny bit.

I think that you are doing great!