T2L, wow, so true especially para 2 of the part 3. I remember my H saying in the MC session "look there is lots of M that break up after 30 years, it is common" and M was NEVER good babble babble.
So you hit the angry stage, I hit that one quick! Tough to work that through. I find that I am grinding my teeth in my sleep. grrrrr. Will have to catch up. Found a way to expose to OW sister.
I will post over in losing my sanity.
We will survive and thrive in the end.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09