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So if this is the phase where he goes back and goes through all the stages again before he breaks into the clearing.


.....no it s not TOH.....this is a the cycle of replay, the cycle you keep the two of you stuck in because you cant leave him alone to do his journey. I really am sorry you cant see this. You had given him a "safe " place for that week he was with you. hope fully he will not remember your call.Listen to Snodderly and MWG....they are so knowledgeable. I know you dont want to hear what I say.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest