Wow, so she baked you a cake? Nice.. with H though, so hard to read anything into that..
I agree that not much will change whilst she's with OM, but I wouldnt regard your interactions as futile.. I am sure they could be having some affect, IF she is having doubts about OM. Of course, if she were in love with OM, theres not much you can do, but she does seem very conected to you (with dropping in for tea and chatting on the phone) so I am not so sure.
I like that you realise this could take a very long time to play out...
Hippy Barfday again!
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
