There was a time, not too long ago, that I could have written that post myself. Right down to the "company Christmas party."
This is all about HER still, right down to the tennis bracelet (makes HER look good, but still no rings) and her portraying you as her date.
I still don't see any movement. I see two great friends, each who is getting some different emotional and financial needs met from the other. But I don't see a husband and a wife. I'm sorry.