He runs to ow because she is not going to be yelling at him as she will welcome him with open arms.
When he feels down and out he will run to her.
Unfortunately that is the way it is.
I think everyone ought to leave him alone, not tell/remind him what he has/has not done because he already knows.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19