Mermaid, Sign the papers when you are ready and have the time available to do so. Do not jump when he snaps his fingers. The man could schedule a time to meet with you and not have you come to his office. I'm very sorry everything turned out this way. Yes, they do tend to drag everything out and then when the notion strikes them, they want it done instantly.
I do hope that you and your children have a beautiful and happy Christmas. May the new year be a brighter and better one for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
