Seems we both got...nada for our anniversaries. Sorry Essie.
If you feel ready to say this go ahead and do. But be ready if he says he doesnt know what he wants to take it a step further cause otherwise you will have achieved nothing. You will have given this phase an extension of time and you will get more frustrated. At least that is what happens to me when I speak out and the other person doesnt react. Summer Christmas? Sex in the pool? Oh Lord!! xxxx K