I read in one of Hallowell's books that to the person with ADHD there is only now...and not now.
OMGosh, that is S12 TO THE TEE !! Now and Not now. He remembers everything at the LAST possible second. Then I have to run around like a crazy woman helping him. Ugh !
Techguy, Adderall is what we're trying. S12 says he feels a slight improvement, but he'd like it to be a bit more. We have a followup next week.
Bridge, I think my H has it as well, but he's found ways over the years to cope. I suggested he try meds for a month & just see, but that went over like a lead balloon. He's Mr. "I hate drugs". I'm the one that believes in better living through chemistry. LOL (teasing sort of) I'll send you a link to what I read that I used to diagnose S.
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M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
