I think for so long I was really focused on changing myself and figuring out how I had contributed to the crisis. But more recently, part of me has been like, "Sh!t, girl! What he did to you was really, really terrible, immature, controlling, disrespectful. Why are you working so hard for someone who treated you like garbage?" T
I was so happy to read this T. Very healthy I think, to keep that view in balance, with the view that everyone has issues and that you have somehow committed to being there for him in spite of B's issues.
Can I tell you again how jealous I am that you and B connect so deeply about your passion for music. H and I connect physically but so far we havent had much emotional connection, or sharing deeply about our thoughts.
