Thanks, I know I need to see consistent behavior,to be hopeful. My W called me up Yesterday and was again wondering if she was doing the right thing. I said only you can find the answer. She apologized for what she has done to me and was wondering out loud if maybe she should see someone (counselor) about herself then perhaps work on the marriage. I didn't say much other than if we did work on things we would have to have a much different relationship and it would be alot of work, but with work can come great rewards. I was heading to my Christmas party that she would normally go to and said we could talk later.
I then got a phone call from her mother who said that she was just talking to my W and that I may get my wish. She said to her mother, that she was questioning if she is doing the right thing and that perhaps she should put things on hold while she worked on herself then we could work on the marriage. My MIL said that she wanted to give me a heads up and that she may make that proposal to me. But we both agreed that she may change her mind tomorrow. My W was out at a concert last night but texted me when she would be home (which is unusual of late.)
I don't know what to make of it? She hasn't talked more about it and I am not going to bring up the subject. I guess I will still live my life for now. She hasn't said anything about signing the separation and I not sure If I should mention it.
That's all for now
Jeff
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
