Another Wife Hit by the Bomb Thread #5

[Tawnya]

{{{Tom}}} Yeah..I definitely had a "picnic" of a day yesterday didn't I? LOL..thank you

{{Sandi}} I made you speechless..LOL..just kidding..yeah I was kinda speechless yesterday too when this at first went down..but, obviously, from my 2 post novella, I found some things to say

Funny enough, the joint bank account thing didn't throw me QUITE as much as the she's going on the trip part..I can't really say WHY that is..I knew, of course, he moved his money to another account at another bank, he TOLD me that, and I KNEW it was to keep me from seeing (or being able to prove) how much $$ they are spending..but I think why the joint bank account doesn't bug me as much as it should/does..I mean it DOES bug me..LOL..is that I finally KNEW who it was..it was there in black and white AND it's now a bargaining chip for me if I need it..so I think that's why..

Sandi..you know the real reason that it hurt me about what my daughter said? If you knew her, she doesn't date a lot, barely at all, first because we just really didn't think dating "around" was the thing to do and now it's really just her choice and that guys don't just ask her out, which I don't get, cause, not just because I'm her mom, but if you saw my FB ever, she's SOOO pretty..she's very smart, funny, blond, blue/green eyes..it's ridiculous really..LOL..so she doesn't take CRAP from guys that's for sure..but, just from things she knows from her friends, things in our family with my dad and hub's dad leaving their "first wives" for other women, she sees that guys are "jerks"..and it just hurts ME for HER that she thinks that..cause it shouldn't be like that..sighhhhh..

Actually, I do remember the Burning Bed..Farrah Fawcett..I DO Remember what a big deal it was and how serious it was..tho I always kinda think of Lorena Bobbitt in these scenarios Yep, I told hub last night he is VERY fortunate to have someone who is not out to be nasty..cause all these hubs could be seriously wounded (think the movie Misery) LOL..couldn't they?

I know this sounds "weird" but I don't know what to say about hub coming back after going on this trip with this chick..I'd love some opinions, guys and gals, do I ultimatum and say, "if you take her on this trip, you are out..well right after Christmas cause the kids would like him here for that day"..I dunno about that one..so some thoughts, good/bad/ugly would be GREAT!

Anyway..THANK YOU {{{Sandi}}} for checking on me..I was hoping you'd appreciate those things that I said about myself..it was really almost like I wasn't saying them, if that makes sense..so anyway..

Tawnya