Divorced, but 'still hopeful' to reconcile.

[still hopeful]

Thank you, David.

I will certainly read all of those more diligently. I am certainly in a much different 'ballgame' than I was 3 years ago. Plus, I am much stronger and more assertive. I do believe THAT is where her attraction comes from, but she definitely has memories of a much weaker and much less assertive me. I am unwilling to undo the growth that I have undergone. I have gotten back in touch with the me that initially attracted her to me.

Thanks for the direction and thoughts.
Tom