Hey Lisa,

I definetly want to be friends with him now, I'd even say hello to her down the pub with him! Its gone beyond that now.. I accept he is gone, but I see a man in a very bad way. The last twice I saw him, he was more tearful than me.. thats the wrong way round!! I'm very concerned about him. Its very sad isnt it?

Whats that about depresson and replay? I'd like to hear more on that, how that works. And yes, she is the stickiest of sticky plasters and she is possibly dragging him lower and making him feel worse about himself than he already does. She doesnt sound like a secure, nurturing person.

Oh and about my BMF.. you know I am friends with his W!! Not BF, shes a little hard work, but I do go for tea with her, plus I am super close to their young kids. So I just thought I am a mate, I never thought he'd overstep the mark, but then I have realised this year how trusting and naive I am, too trusting!

..did you see this!?? Paul weller splits with partner of 13 years Another MLC! He's 50, shes 23!!! (apologies its that horrendous newspaper, but it was the best article on google with photos). Just before Christmas too..