How frustrating about your bar application. I'm glad you got it sorted out, though. What a pain to have another thing to deal with though!
I was thinking about H not replying to your texts, and wondering about ways to get around that..... do you think a call would work at all instead of IM or texting? I always find my H better on the phone than on text or e-mail but feel a bit nervous contacting by phone for some reason.....
Anyway, just a thought. I also wondered about being friends and I know you made an effor to speak to him after he sent the apology letter. Again, I wondered whether, if you want to be friends, you could tell him you'd like it if you were....he may need a little encouragement (which you may or may not want to give!)
As usual you sound amazing and totally on top of everything. Such an inspiration Michelle!