So I met Cher all day..she told me that when her bf turned up to the pub Thursday, he must have asked my ex how he is doing as apparently, my ex said "I just want to say, right from the start, I dont want to talk about anything serious as it will just upset me"... WOW. What a thing to say to his BMF. I felt upset when she told me and I welled up. I said to her, he is NOT ok. I am worried, but what can I do?
Anyway, she also said, that her bf doesnt think it is right with Helen, as my ex is sooo unhappy and he shouldnt be. She also said, that my ex WASNT intending to go to Glastonbury with Helen (she told me ages ago he was going to get tickets).. but in fact he was going to go with a male friend from home. So that was interesting.. thats another assumption I had got wrong (that Helen is into music like me and him).
So.. it added to my clarity about JUST trying to be his friend. I think he is very low if he made a statement like that to his mate when he met with him. And what a thing for a guy to say to another guy down the pub! (although my ex is very emotional for a man). I am worried about him, but he has chosen to walk away from my love and concern and also my friendship. And I know him better than any of these BMFs and he tells me things he doesnt tell anyone else, as recently as 3 weeks ago, like how low he is.
Grrr.. why doesnt he break up with her! Its not right. Ho hum.
