I feel pretty confident that me dropping the rope or pulling myself away from her will NOT have the desired effect that it should, but I am going to continue, until MAYBE I see another chance to 'attack'.
Thats what I had intended to say.
I kind of think dropping the rope will benefit you the most as it has done me. It's less stressful if you're not holding on to the rope, checking the rope, analyzing the rope, etc. It's for you to have more peace & serenity in your life. If your W is able to see that you are not pulling on the rope maybe she will react in a positive way and maybe not. But you won't care as much about her reactions then (or shouldn't anyway)!!! Karen
