I don't believe anything I've said is against DB principals. LRT says not to pursue, it doesn't say: 'become a male chaevenist pig and power move the WAW into submission'.
I agree with your cousin on most things, except that it is over. I do not think it is. She was actively talking reconcilliation just a few weeks ago. It's not too late.
TG,
Where was A advised to be a chauvenist pig and power move his WAW into submission?
And why is it wrong for a man to insist that his wife end an affair before he's willing to work on reconciliation? I think that's just good common sense, and I think his wife's strong reactions indicate that her offer wasn't sincere.
