You ask me to enter / But then you make me crawl

[MsMelancoly]

Hi Michelle, I haven't read all your threads, but I want you to know I feel your pain. I am in a similiar sitch (although you are a couple rounds ahead of me). My H's 60 days to serve me ended this week. I thought I was moving foward to somewhere - but am still in limboland.

As Ali said maybe you are too detached. I think I am. Although it has been good for me & saved my sanity.

Does fear & guilt control your H? Fear has been in the drivers seat since my H left. It is probably paralyzing his actions towards me. He told me he was afraid of me & afraid that I was mad at him. (Read my last thread if you want to know more). I told him I was not & understand his actions.

I too am in the what now stage????

PS. DBcoach Jody's advise on $$ owed, is not sluff off & say it doesn't matter. Rather to offer a payment plan & have him take responsiblity.