Where do I begin and how much detail do i get into.....for the male readers, IL40 is a good looking brown eyed voluptuos woman who turns heads. Little John surely noticed. Alright back to our regularly scheduled program. After dropping off D8 and surprisingly receiving a few compliments from her mother, I headed out to pickup IL40 at her home and then on to the Italian restaurant. As i mentionned earlier, we are from the same ethnic origin and therefore have alot in common. I have never had a longterm relationship with an Italian woman which is very rare in my circle. Most if not all of my Italo canadian buddies are married to woman from the same origins. We shared a nice bottle of red wine while enjoying our antipasti. She is a cheap date because on the consumption front, a couple of glasses is all she needs to "loosen up". The jury is still out on the long term viability of this potential relationship....the only slight negative (and this may be premature on my part)is she may be lacking on the intelectual and humurous stimulation that I would like. On the positive side, she is a down to earth single mom who brought up her two daughters by herself and although dresses nicely you can tell that her priorities are elsewhere....(no Fendi purse K). She has some old fashioned values but combines them with some quirky ideas / stories. She felt pretty comfortable with me. The night ended with a nice hug and a couple of kisses on the cheek...I am such a gentleman. There you go...maybe too much detail.... maybe not enough....bottom line is there is potential for at the very least discovering a little more about her. I open up the floor for question period.
Sounds like a great first outing. Dating is a progression. Is the person interesting enough to spend timewith again?
Perhaps it's a gift wrapped box that you keep opening only to find another gift within. As long as it's intriguing, interesting, fun.. you keep openning the boxes. When it isn't, you stop. It happens on both sides.
A date is a date... footsteps in the sand.
Great to hear you had a good time last night!
*hugs*
PS.. lil john wasn't doing the effects of wine consumption analysis with your date, was he?
Given the opportunity, I would like to continue to open the boxes...and see where that takes us. I get the sense that she is looking for a "serious" relationship and I am not sure I am there. Gyps, you are going to have to explain that PS portion....right over my head.....
First of all I dont like Fendi bags... Secondly, why do think you I am that hollow, superficial? Why would what she carried mean anything about her?
A date is just a date. You never know how it will turn out. It may be it will not turn out anywhere (most probable) but at least you spent the night with an adult woman that seemed to enjoyed your company... K
Have fun with doing the "single's life" John... Congrats on your first (not disasterous) date...
K, I know you like handbags, I just did not remember the specific designer. I never said you were superficial or shallow. What I was trying to convey was that she seems to spend her money on other things. That was not a commentary on you. I apologize if I offended you or anybody else for that matter. By the way, I think what a person wears when compared with other portions of his / her lifestyle speaks volumes.
Last night was fun and I was happy to spend it with an adult woman as opposed to D8....I don't know if she enjoyed my company as much as D8 does but you are right, it was a nice change.
I am not sure I am made for the "single life" ....we will see.....
