Hey, TxMom! I just wanted to stop in and let you know that reading about your journey has really helped me alot in terms of thinking about mine. I really feel for you, and I think you're doing a great job.
I too struggle with the difficulty of dealing with a man that used to be so selfless and loving - a family man, a friend, and someone that would rather stay home than go out with friends. Heck, he barely had any friends. And now, like you, I am dealing with a selfish, distant guy that parties with his unethical coworkers every night, has his bachelor pad, and is all me, me, me. It really hurts, and it does make one question if it's even worth bothering.
We love the men we knew, not the men we're dealing with now.
That being said, I think you've gotten a lot of excellent advice. Lord knows I am not wise enough to add to it, but I will pray for you and trust that God will provide only the best for you regardless of the outcome.
