Anyway, I only see my cousin about twice a year and he has NEVER met my wife (timing issues). He's probably the smartest person I know, total brainiac, and works with predictive analysis with cause and effect. Basically, stuff I don't understand. He's not "good with the ladies" shall we say but he gets cause and effect.
I'll say!
Fascinating, to come at this R stuff strictly from somebody's unbiased cause-and-effect analysis of it. FASCINATING!!
btw, waywards often use OM/OW1 as a staging for OM/OW2, which is why I think it's always smart to focus on the marital breakdowns and then "affair-proofing" the marriage, a la Dr. Harley, rather than just on the specific OM/OW1... because, like a terrorist, you kill one and another one just takes their place.