i posted my response above before reading the rest of your posts afterwards - it looks like you're on the rgiht track, great work and keep moving in that direction!
i've foudn teh same - that acting as if it's pretty much over (for now at least) and that he is here as a companion and a father, it is going ok - H is very nice and caring in fact with little hugs and kind words. We're goign to dinner together with the kids to some old friends of ours who are not aware of our current sitch. I will not drink (because i'm driving) - a good thing because the alchohol can bring down my 'performance quality' and i would risk losing it and crying etc.
bon courage M!
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