Happy new year to you! I truly hope that 2009 brings a fresh start for you. Though my D has been final for several months, little niggling details continue to pop up, preventing me from completely moving on. I'm sooooooo ready for that. It's been a little over two years for me since we separated and that's been bad enough. I don't know how you've managed to last three years without closure. At some point you want to just leave it all behind and move on with life (at least as much as you can given any children in the M). My very best to you.
