It did come up in conversation tonight that H saw me drive by, he said that he wondered what was up, was going to call me but when he saw me head North like I was going to Tiff's house, he figured I must have taken her to her work to get her car. I said yeah, I didn't even see you. I said you were behind me? H said yeah, I saw you drive by, there is a green mustang in town there, but no white stripes, so when I saw they went all the way down, I got in the jeep and spun it around and caught up with you. (I was thinking no [censored], you had drive pretty damn fast to catch me) But when I drive I don't look around much, so H doesn't know that I saw him. I hated to lie, but at this point, didn't want him to know I was driving by.
I still am not sure why I did, I guess just so I know where he is at. There were no outside Christmas lights or anything festive loking.
We talked when I got home on Thursday, about the way different people feel about Christmas, I said that Tiff had presents already under the tree for her D. None from Santa, but when I grew up nothing went under the tree, except on on Christmas eve (PJ's that I opened that night to wear the next day. So that way when I got up everything was a surprise, H and I kept doing that with SD, she got PJ's the on Christmas Eve and then everything else went out after she went to bed. I wonder if OW doesn't do that, because he was very attiment about some people not doing that, and not knowing the real reason for Christmas, and knowing the Christmas story. He even said he didn't figure SD knew the whole story, even though she went to Sunday school with H's mom a bunch. But just didn't like that people didn't know the real reason for Christmas and not giving presents early. Made me wonder OW's views on that. As upset as he seemed, made me think she didn't agree with him on that one. Not that another person's ideals aren't fine, but just that they don't jive with H's. Especially in an intimate sitatation like he is in, where they have already established their traditions.
Anyway just something I was thinking about after last night's conversations.
