Now I look like a stalker!!
You have managed to roll half a dozen talks I have had with "nappy hoe" (check LiS thread for reference) into 1 looooong talk!

Jokes....check

OP and kids...better then mine!

Making all the good changes....check again!

Proud of you!!

Do YOU feel better? You know that chit has been building up! The key is that WE come here and vent...gain some insight...you catch my drift. When these talks come up we handle them like champs!
Question.....did H seem scared/nervous/taken back by your strength?

The last talk like this we had.....the night I caught her on phone with OM....I swear I could SMELL her FEAR....I wasn't evil or anything.....calmness and truthfulness can be a damn scary combo!!


H 34
W 31
M 11yrs
D 11
D 9

6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
6-11-08 I found out about OM

7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

8-17 home (just for kids until the end??)