You guys beat me hands down, I have never confronted OW, since all of this started, I met her over a year ago, when she was with her BF at H's and her BF's work, and then was introduced to her when she first started working at the convienient store last year when her BF was put in the mental ward at the hospital.
WC, it was her house I drove by, where my H is living at the moment. My friend works at the school board office in OW's town, and that was my excuse for being there in that part of town, was that I took my friend back to her car after dinner, I didn't but that is what I told my H.