Originally Posted By: Bettou
Nothing I am doing is working. Of course, it is making me stronger and that is great, it really is, I just really wanted these techniques to work on H and they are not.


Hi Beth,

I guess you could say that things aren't working based on interaction frequency with your husband. But they aren't getting worse either.

If you weren't DBing, who knows how much worse things would have gotten by now?

And I'm just not sure that measuring progress based on interaction frequency or trying to analyse the tone of a few words in email is a good measure. The only 'true' measure is to know what is going on inside husband's head. That's something you just don't see.

Keep your chin up!


My thread, Carpe Diem #4
Orig Thread: Carpe Diem #1