Yep,
Still just smiling and waving! Thanks for the reminder Steve.

I did make it through Thanksgiving with a smile on my face. It wasn't actually bad at all. It's just odd that the more I try to move on, the more she wants to make it harder for me to do so...all without any hint that she wants to work on the M. (She needs a really good therapist!)

As far as the big D, W continues to not mention anything about it, so I follow suit, all while continuing to work through the Ls. I have 5 or 6 docs. to get back to my L and then we will set a mediation date. Spent 2 hours with my L going over the case last week and feel a bit less stressed about it. Just wish W would start to move on, get a job, etc. so that this doesn't have to be so damned hard.

Anyway, I did my first 1/2 marathon last weekend, was 4 min. under my target time and I really had a great time. So now I'm contemplating a marathon in the spring. We'll see how the next few long runs feel. Either way, FLTC, I'm still living on the endorphins!

Take care, SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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