(Why when I read what I wrote in response to someone else it seems like good advice but in my own sitch I am soooo confused?)
Amen!
If it were an event featuring my D, I wouldn't miss it. But as it is, she will leave the 'babysitting' to me if I go to this dinner. I would rather her take some responsiblity....and in this case she will miss me.....
I can say right now, I will not spend another Christmas holiday alone....
If she sends divorce papers in Aug. 09, I'll sign 'em and get on with my life. I don't mean to sound smug, but she doesn't deserve me. I would never do to her what she is doing to me.
Last edited by native; 12/13/0801:37 AM.
Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09