Thanks guys. I just don't know what to think of Karen's short comment you all know I am short(5'3"). lol Anyway, just a shock. I thought she would be a knockout or something since ex always told me how pretty he thought I was.
I know that there is more to attraction but usually the looks are the first thing that draws you to someone. Guess I just don't have the cheater mentality.
Good thing! Well the height thing is just that I"m tall you know and then he did that. He used to always tease me he'd take up with a short girl, guess I thought that was just joking!!! H's first girlfriend was not even 5 ft. tall I would guess! I guess he went for the difference.
I know I've thought in the past maybe they aren't initially out looking for a PA. Maybe make friends and flirt with someone they consider "safe" like my H with a married woman coworker with kids--then they start an EA and then into a PA and soon divorce. I wonder if H had known what would happen with his friendship with OW, what happened to our marriage and family, if he would still have done it, but I guess maybe the excitement after 20 years of being together.... Karen
