Hold on here MT. You were driving by a public business where ow works and caught your H being there and HE is MAD at you!!! That would have been a good time to unload on HIM!
Oh well, you're a much better DBer than I.

Let's see, ow has been to my house and had her horse in my barn, one time when I knew H was going to the place where she boarded her horse I showed up with Christmas lunch for everyone and sat between H and ow, I've knocked on the door of her apartment when H's truck was parked outside, I've opened her locked gate at her new palace and looked for H when he was 'missing' in the middle of the night when I arrived home early from a trip. Another time she called H for a horse emergency and I wouldn't let him go without me. Do I win any prizes?

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.